Video clip from @afroninjasa Our children learn how to respond from experiences, but also from how WE respond to experiences. Of course they may get injured and cry even if we are calm; but the more we maintain composure and compassion; the more they learn to do the same. If a child sees a caregiver panic or have a big reaction, they will learn to do the same. Have you ever seen a child fall and look around BEFORE they cry? They are trying to make sense of what they should do when this happens. And if they are constantly met with a caregiver’s big reaction-they will continue to react the same. Our response matters in so many ways. Of course, you will assess to make sure they are not seriously injured and offer compassion, but it’s also important to teach them to get back up. Yes, some kids may be more sensitive and even with a calm caregiver demeanor they can react more than other children; but continue with a calm reaction-it can help in long run! The more you do this, the more you will see them get back up and keep going. The ultimate metaphor for life too, right? Over-reacting to their falling (or anything they do!) with big exaggerated responses also can increase the amount of crying and continue that reaction in the future as demonstrated in this video with non-injuries! How do you respond when your child falls?