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2w ago
Stitch with: @montessori.mothering Sharing is a skill that takes time to develop, and kids’ ability to share depends on their age and developmental stage. And no: a toy brought to the playground should NOT be expected to be a communal toy. It’s also typical for a child (and let’s be honest-even adult) to not always want to share. By teaching the concept of sharing and not shaming the lack of sharing-we foster a balance. It's okay for a kid not to want to share because it reflects their natural development of autonomy. Children are still learning about boundaries and ownership, and it's a normal part of emotional growth to take ownership of what’s theirs and not want to always share it. Expect a 12-month-old to share? Not likely going to happen! At that age, their brains are still developing the basics—like managing emotions, self-control, and social awareness. They’re busy exploring the world and figuring out who they are, which naturally leads to a “me” and “mine” mindset. They don’t yet understand that other people have different wants or how to take turns. Toddlers, on the other hand, are starting to get the hang of it. With more developed brains, they’re learning to take turns and recognize others’ feelings. But they still struggle—especially when emotions run high or they feel attached to a favorite toy (like when they bring it to the park and another kid wants a turn👀). It’s helpful to practice turn-taking at home and offer lots of praise when they succeed. We don’t need to force them, but model the behavior especially after 12 months of age. And when things get tough, offering choices instead of forcing them to share can make all the difference: “Do you want to give your car to your friend, or share the blocks instead?” Rather than forcing sharing, let’s guide our kids with patience and empathy, helping them develop social skills naturally over time.
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