Names are important. Growing up, my Indian-American parents both changed their names to easier names at work. This was common for a lot of our Indian parents here in America. Rather than making people learn their names, they changed them. All the aunties and uncles growing up had their given name and “easy-to-say American names.” When it came time to naming me, they made the conscious decision to choose an “easier name.” I respect them and also love my name. Even though they did it out of ease, my name holds a story as well. Names matter. They are where stories begin. They are the first part of our identity and by mocking someone’s name or not trying to learn, we disrespect that person. Our kids can learn names too. They may forget names (just like we may do), but the intent to learn and understand is a sign of respect. A sign that you care about that person’s identity. And this applies to pronunciation. Two names could be spelled the same, but pronounced differently. If you’re unsure, ask the person or the parent. It’s a simple solution. This also goes for bullying. We have to teach our kids that all people are unique and beautiful just like all names are. And just like we wouldn’t comment negatively about someone’s appearance, we shouldn’t do the same about someone’s name. Teach your children than their names matter and that the names of their peers’ matter too. If you want a link to the shirt, comment TSHIRT LINK If you want the link to the book, comment NAME BOOK This post is not sponsored by anybody. Just get people’s names right. Clip from @skynews